Frequently asked questions

The Erotic Ball is just one big sexy party where you can leave your inhibitions at the door. All of our venues have multiple rooms where you can dance, flirt, drink, chill out, and watch some sexy entertainment. Our sexy entertainment changes every year and it can include burlesque performers, erotic dancers, strippers, pole dancers, artistic performances, and more! There's also mutiple DJ's and prizes for the best dressed. The dress theme is always "erotic"

Sorry, you will not be allowed into the event wearing normal clothes! ​ The Dress Code is 'Erotic' – there are no limits if your imagination allows it. If you need some ideas check out gallery page. ​ Some dress suggestions are: Bodypaint Latex or leather Lingerie B&D or kink gear Sexy uniforms Tassels or feathers Fancy dress (but with an erotic theme please!) Tight and revealing clothes See-through mesh or fishnet ​ Please do not wear normal or boring formal clothes, T-shirts, jeans, suits etc. (or you will be asked to go home and get changed)

We reveal where the accommodation and venue is once you have bought tickets. We keep it secret to keep away the wowsers and pervents and anyone trying to crash the party. If you need more details on the geographical location of the venue or accommodation feel free to drop us a line at contact@theeroticball.com.au

The hotel is a well known 4 star hotel, which is only a 5 min cab/ube ride from the ball venue. We offer 1 and 2 night packages, extra nights are available by request and subject to availability.

No – save it for after the event. The ball is all about letting your hair down and meeting other lifestyles and curious couples. If you feel the need to have sex take them back to your room. ​ A bigger turn on is when people get really close, such as on the dance floor, enjoying each other's company and sexy gear. ​ It is always wise to book a hotel close by for emergencies!

Upper body nudity is fine – lower genitals may not be exposed micro thongs/bikinis are fine. Footwear must be also worn, no bare feet allowed for safety reasons. Dress less and dress to tease. See our gallery (javascript:void(0))for hundreds of ideas.

Yes, there are changing areas inside all of our venues.

Yes, there will be a free staffed cloakroom available at the event. You’re welcome to leave personal belongings such as handbags, backpacks, umbrellas, or any other valuables in our cloakroom. The cloakroom will open at 8pm minutes and close 15 minutes after the event ends. When using our cloakroom, you agree that we do not accept responsibility for the loss or damage of your belongings.

Yes, we have excellent and well-organised security at the door to refuse entry to the curious and people hoping to attend on the night without purchasing a ticket beforehand. ​ Security is also discreetly present inside and throughout the night and respect our guests wishes to enjoy the evening without feeling as if they are being ‘watched’. We also work with local Police before the event in order to notify them of the content and that the night is full of adults (including off duty policemen) having fun!

Disabled people are very welcome but each venue in each city is different, so please check directy with us at contact@theeroticball.com.au (contact@theeroticball.com.au)too see if the venue in your city has facilities for disabled people. For any special needs or clarification please email us with details of your condition and requirements and we will plan to ensure you have a great night.

You cannot book your ticket or pick them up at the venue. ​ Tickets must be pre-booked and paid for before the night. No payments will be taken on the night. You can buy tickets here(javascript:void(0)) Tickets must be shown on the night.

Single Ladies are welcome, sorry single guys are not allowed, we have tried this in the past but we have had too many complaints. Men turning up without their partner, for whatever reason, will not be allowed to attend, nor will they have their tickets refunded.

Ticket holders are strictly not allowed to take cameras or pictures at the event. Any pictures taken at The Erotic Ball later and are found to have entered the public domain will render the picture taker and distributor liable to civil prosecution. ​ People found with cameras will be asked to leave immediately without question. This applies to mobile phone cameras also. ​ Only our official video and photographers are allowed to take a camera into the premises.

There are a lot of balls and dance events out there focusing on specific lifestyles (gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, kink, swingers). The Erotic Ball appeals to all the lifestyles coming together to enjoy each other's company and show themselves off. P.S did we mention that we are Australia's sexiest party?

Unfortantely we can not issue refunds or credits for tickets or accommodation packages. But if you are unable to use your tickets feel free to pass them onto some like minded friends.

All of events are held in fully licensed venues so BYO is not allowed under any circumstances. All of our bars and venues offer beer, spirits, wine and a collection of cocktails.